Hello, hello.

I’m jeanie — an Intimacy, Relationship, and Leadership Coach. I help people come home to their bodies so they can feel what they have been searching for: pleasure, desire, and connection that is real.

I work with people who are ready to free themselves from the confines society has placed on them.

Portrait of jeanie, smiling gently

Why LIMINA

The place the world told me was nowhere was actually my home.

I grew up in a small town in Pennsylvania always living in a liminal space. I was not Chinese enough. Not white enough. Not straight enough. Not lesbian either. In a world where everyone else possessed a clear map of who they were and where they belonged, I existed in the margins. It was the quiet, particular loneliness of falling between the cracks—unseen, uncounted, and entirely inconsequential.

And then something shifted.

I stopped looking at the threshold as the space between two places I couldn’t reach. I started to understand it as the place I actually lived. Not between identities. Not between worlds. But in the only space that had ever been entirely mine — the one no one else had mapped, because no one else had needed to.

When I chose not to be defined by anyone else’s standards, I had no choice but to find my own. That is not a small thing. That is everything.

LIMINA is named for that space. The threshold. The in-between. The place the world told me was nowhere was actually my home.

It is my deepest desire to help others find that space within themselves. Not the space between who you are supposed to be. The space you actually inhabit. The one that was always there, waiting for you to stop apologizing for it and start living in it.

Because this world was not designed for any of us exactly as we are, the most radical thing available to us is to stop trying to fit ourselves into some mold and carve space for who we truly are.

You are not broken. You are not behind. You are in the middle of a becoming — and this is a space that can hold that.

jeanie in a warm conversation outside a neighborhood café
Presence begins with listening — to ourselves and to each other.

What I believe

Coming home to your body is one of the most radical acts available to us.

The body keeps the score — and it also holds a path to healing, if we are willing to listen.

Desire is not something to manage or minimize. It is information. It is you, trying to tell yourself something true.

My role is to illuminate the darkness, so you can find the right path for yourself.

My approach

Experiential rather than theoretical.

My work is not about giving you a framework to apply; it is about creating a space where you can practice, in real time, the skills of connection, desire, communication, and presence.

I bring a sex-positive, kink-aware, and non-judgmental perspective. My practice is explicitly welcoming of LGBTQIA+ folks, people in alternative relationship structures, and anyone whose way of loving exists outside societal constructs.

“Pleasure is a measure of freedom.” And I believe you deserve to be free.

Pricing

Limina pricing reflects our commitment to economic justice and systemic reparation. Capitalism ignores the reality that wealth is often inherited and guarded through white supremacy, cis-heteropatriarchy, and ableism.

Our sliding scale is not a charitable discount. It is an active practice of transformative justice, wealth redistribution, and collective accountability. We invite you to practice economic mindfulness by looking at your resources, structural safety nets, and relative privilege. If needed, please reference the Green Bottle Method (opens in a new tab) to help determine your own rate. For those with more financial resources, a reminder that paying the top of the range allows me to redistribute this money to support others who do not have access to the same resources due to systemic barriers. This process is one rooted in trust. I believe you will compensate me fairly.

Suggested rates are $125 - $250 for a 60 minute session.

If this still feels out of reach for you, please send me a message to discuss alternate forms of exchange.

Whether you come for intimacy coaching, leadership development, BDSM-informed healing, circlework, or mediation, you are coming for the same thing.

To be more fully yourself.

To move through the world with less armor and more presence. To build relationships — with yourself, others, and community — that are honest, embodied, and real.

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